Um , well no, because I’m tired and I’ve been in work all day and please just leave me alone and let me watch the telly in peace!
Hi everyone, my name is Barenakedmummy and I’m a full time working mum to two small girls Bel 6 and Car 2. Bel is in school full time and Car is in nursery. My husband, Neb is currently unemployed and therefore does nothing, tidies the house, something unrelated does I don’t know what all day! I’m over here blogging today thanks to Little Mummy’s Guest Post day.
So, hands up, who really feels like they want sex at the moment.
I thought this feeling of tiredness would get better as my children are older but really most days (or weeknights ) all I want to do is go to bed and sleep. Its not that I don’t feel like having any it just seems that when I do he doesn’t. And really if I need to jump on him, and he can’t pick up the signs that I want it (I can me as subtle as a brick) then AAGH.
Maybe this is just normal married couple sex, I don’t know.
Before babies and being married (yep I did it that way round) our sex life was very good and very regular with occasions of non-stop sex marathons but the chances of them happening these days are quite slim. I mean, don’t get me wrong we do have some Saturday morning sex whilst the kids are watching tv and with the bedroom door closed but chances are that gets disturbed by screams from one of them.
Also as Car is still not in her own room, (Car room = spare room = dumping ground) we don’t do it in bed anymore as she is a light sleeper and I know its fun to have sex in different places around the house but sometimes I wanna fuck in bed (oops sorry swore again!)
Maybe its just me, maybe it’s the pill I’m on but why is it that when I come home from work, cook supper, kids to bath and bed do you then need to decide that I want to make love to you when all I want is a hug and a kiss and time to watch some telly.
Maybe its him, maybe I need to be wined and dined (at home, obviously budget keeping you know!) more often and then I will feel like playing hide the sausage.
Or maybe its just getting older, I don’t remember my parents being at it like rampant rabbits (should I get one ?) and maybe this is something we will both get used to.
Anyway if you pass down my street and all is quite at our house but you see the car, and the blinds are shut, don’t knock we may be busy.
BNMx
I never thought at the age of 21 I’d forget what sex was! I blame late nights & Twitter!!
.-= Emma said I Want A Golden Ticket To The MADS! =-.
For me I need my sleep at the moment, We still do, but it is quality over quantity these days
.-= TheMadHouse said Writing Workshop – Hues of Orange =-.
Yep, definitely quality over quantity, don’t have the energy for much else. I can’t remember what ‘marathon’ means………………Jen
.-= Jen said Sensible Helpful Intelligent Thinking Syndrome. =-.
it is soooooo frustrating sometimes isn’t it????
I blame the owner of this blog! hehehehehe
loved the post! u can guest for me whenever you want!
xxx
.-= urbanvox said The weekend in pictures =-.
I’m still getting some. Maybe it’s one of the advantages of no kids?
Thank you Glowstars for letting me share myself on your blog.
Thank you also to Urbanvox for his thoughts on my guest post and for letting me know that I can guest on his post too – is this something to do with men and sex??
Am glad am not the only one who doesn’t want it / get it but am worried that Mancais is only getting some
BNMx